Monday, March 18, 2013

Day 5: A Day of Good Deeds - March 17, 2013

Today, everyone had an amazing time at Good Deeds Day! It was an amazing day full of volunteering, eating, and just enjoying time with our Diller counterparts from half way across the world.  Every Diller went to volunteer with their family and their Israeli different places: such as the Jewish Relief Fund, planting flowers, painting a nursery, and much more.  It was exciting to be able to volunteer for the first time with our Israelis as it was something that we have never done together before!  For example; my Israeli, another Diller and his Israeli, and I packed boxes with food for Passover for families.  Then, after all the boxes were packed, the family went to deliver the food to a house.  It was a wonderful feeling to give the box to the household and to hear them say thank you for our deed.
Afterward, everyone met in the Federation at Whippany for a lunch celebrating Good Deeds Day with pizza, pasta, and salad.  All the parents and the Dillers had an amazing time just talking and eating and spending the free time that we have all together.  We enjoyed a small presentation that the Good Deeds Day staff put together and then we said good bye to our parents and other Good Deeds Day volunteers to get down to business in our Diller joint programming.  
We began our Diller programming with a Afternoon Ma'agal/Circle, and had a check in.  We talked about a rose, a thorn, and a bud: a positive experience, a challenge, and something that we are looking forward to.  A rose for most people were the connections we have made.  A thorn was stresses such as not being able to get our school work done.  A popular bud was our Shabbaton that we are all looking forward to next weekend and the Israel Summer Seminar! Israel is so far away, but actually it is closer than we all think.  Today, we already started making plans for our camp and seminar we are running during the summer! It is going to be an especially amazing summer as we are actually going to be running 2 summer experiences in Israel: A Day Camp for Ethiopian elementary aged children and a Overnight Seminar on Tikun Olam/Social Justice for Ethiopian middle-school aged kids. We were split into committees: Counselor, Enrichment, or Coordinators and Spirit. Thinking about the summer already has already gotten everyone excited for what is to come during the summer!As the last part of our workshop today, the Israeli Leader of the Day, Gal, ran a competition like Master Chef.  Together, we all made our delicious dinner: hummus, shaksuka, Israeli salad, and malawach.  The winner of the competition… durmroll please… was the salad group! After a long, amusing day with our fellow Dillers, it was time to go home with our Israelis until next time. 
- Michael Paisner







Day 4: Shabbat in the Home - March 16, 2013



The first Shabbat was spent at the homes of the Diller teens of GreaterMetroWest. Some Dillers went to Beit K’nesset/Synagogue with their hosts and stayed in the area; while others traveled to different places, like New York and Philly. The Israelis were extremely excited to see snow fall for the first time! Some of us played in the snow and had a blast! After Shabbat, Julian welcomed us all to his house, where we hung out for hours! We talked, danced, and got to know each other better. At about 12:30, when EVERYBODY was pretty much passing out, we headed home to get rested for Good deeds day.
- Lindsey Blenden




On Saturday March 16th, Michael and I were looking forward to sleeping in then going out for a nice birthday lunch. Michael decided to sleep in until 11:30 but apologized greatly for "keep me waiting". While we were eating breakfast Michael explained to me how much he loves birthdays and said happy birthday for the first of many times. 

After breakfast we both got ready to go out to lunch at Don Jose with my family and I. Then the party started as we arrived back home and I introduced my Randolph friends to "Israeli Mike". We had three Michaels at my house so we need to have some distinction between the names and Diller Michael came up with the nickname "Israeli Mike". After a lot of FIFA, ping pong, music, and just hanging out and talking, Michael and I decided to get to bed for a long day of writing books for little kids was ahead of us!!
- Corey Basciano




Day 3: Bringing it to Reality - March 15, 2013


On day three of the NAS, we were forced to part from our Israelis for another agonizing day at school while they met up again at the JCC in West Orange.  Since we are already growing so much closer to our partners, it was nearly impossible to think or talk about anything other than Diller at school!  While the Americans learned and worked our little tuchas’ off at school, the Israelis participated in a fun day of learning about the Jewish community in Greater Metrowest, New Jersey.  They toured around the JCC and met with all sorts of people, from the elders to the nursery school children.  After exploring the JCC and enjoying a delicious lunch, they were beyond ecstatic for their first journey on an American yellow school bus.  (Can you imagine the excitement?!) Their next adventure brought them to temple B’nai Avraham where they heard an engaging speech about the synagogue and the lifestyle of an average Jewish American.

After a long and fun day, both the Israelis and Americans were more than thrilled to be reunited with each other for our first Shabbat together.  Each family took the free night to celebrate in a multitude of ways.  In my opinion, the most unique thing about our group is how varying we all are, yet we still are able to relate and appreciate our differences.  Some families took the opportunity to travel into the Big City, while others had a quiet and relaxing Shabbos dinner.  Either way, I think it’s easy to say that everyone had a remarkable time either traveling around New Jersey or reuniting with their partners.  After only three days, we feel so connected and open to each other and can only imagine how close Metro-Letzion Diller 6 will grow to be throughout the rest of our journey!
Tehenu vetenatzlu kol rega, make the best of the every minute!

-Juliet Felsen

Happy Birthday to our Amazing Israeli Junior Counselor, Lahav!

Friday, March 15, 2013

Day 2: Deep Within Our Roots - March 14, 2013


Today, while the Metro west Diller’s were at school, our Israeli partners, the Rishon Diller’s were out touring and working on Tikkun Olam, repairing the world.
There were a few options for volunteering this morning. Many of the Israelis traveled to a church in Newark where they helped serve food at a soup kitchen and prepare bags of meals at a food pantry. In the words of Omer, one of the Israeli Diller’s, “It was really exciting and nice!”. They prepared 650 bags for families in need, no small task! 

At the same time, part of the group went to speak with elderly members of the Jewish community about the current political situation in Israel. After discussing politics, they served them food and sat down to talk less formally with them, sharing past experiences from their lives, and in some cases, speaking for an entire hour and a half without interruption.

After serving food and hearing from the Soup Kitchen staff about what it is like to serve on a regular basis, the group joined went on a tour of Old Jewish Newark to learn about how Jewish life really began in Greater MetroWest. What made this experience more unique is that they were joined by a group of senior citizens, many of whom grew up in the very neighborhoods they toured. They gladly shared much of their life stories and experiences with the vibrant young group of Israeli teens.The Israeli group visited a Ahavas Shalom, the only remaining functioning synagogue in Newark, and then visited other historically Jewish locations throughout the city.

We then joined together, Americans and Israeli’s, and shared the histories of some of our families, which quickly led to us realizing that even though we live halfway across the world from each other, only a couple of generations back, we were all living pretty much together, in the same places.
- Julian Biller


Waking up this morning was a major struggle after a long night of talking and laughing and meeting our best friends for the next 12 days. The only thing that kept me awake throughout the day was the knowledge that I would be seeing the rest of the Dillers again that very night. After an agonizing day of waiting to go to Metrowest, we finally arrived for our workshop. Weeks in advance we were told to prepare stories and pictures about our families and how they came to either America or Israel so that we could connect with the group for our "roots" themed conversations and activities. After our arrival we hugged and greeted each other as if we had been apart for years instead of only a day and stood in a circle for a game of Chinese soccer. We had to stand with our legs apart so that our feet were touching the people's feet who were next to us and throw the ball through the legs of people on the other side of the circle from us but the catch was that to defend yourself you weren't allowed to bend your knees to reach the ball. The game was extremely entertaining and everyone managed to stay in...for the most part, but the idea behind the fun was that we were using a globe as a ball to show that we come from all over the world but we are all here together for the North American Seminar to learn about each other and become one big group. After the game it was time to get serious. 



Our wonderful Junior Counselors laid out little slips of paper with different values on them and we were given the instructions to pick five values that we would take with us if we had to leave our homes for a new community. After splitting up into our different discussion groups we talked about why we chose the values that we did and began to argue and debate about whether we would compromise our values when faced with a different community that does not support what we believe in. It was enjoyable to be able to talk with not only the Metrowest Dillers as we have many times in activities like this, but also to debate with the Rishon Dillers and hear their thoughts and ideas and beliefs. Once we were all talked out we had delicious Chinese food (to match the Chinese soccer!) and chatted and teased one another until it was time to get back to work. We then shared our stories and pictures that we had prepared what seemed so long ago. It was interesting to learn about where everyone came from and to see their life from a different perspective. With stronger connections, full stomachs, and lots of laughs, we officially ended the night with the famous Achim Dance that we had dreamed about doing as a big Metro-Litzion and hugged goodbye. It seems like years until we meet again on Sunday but we cannot wait to spend more time with each other and have even more fun. Root Sof, Over and Out.
-Lauren Goldman

Check out the first ever Vlog (Video Blog) by Lauren & Tal and hear more about the evening's joint activity!



Thursday, March 14, 2013

Finally! Our first Meeting - NAS Day 1: March 13, 2013


Today we met the Israelis for the first time! Yay!  Throughout the entire day, as the Israelis were exploring the Jewish experience to America, we were all very excited and anxious to meet our new friends. I mean, who wouldn’t be, right? Before arriving at the Federation, the Americans made signs with his/her Israeli’s name on it, similar to how a taxi driver creates a sign with the name of his client. All of our excitement made it difficult to get things done because all we wanted to do was see the Israelis. To put our excitement into perspective imagine that your pesty Aunt Elga and her not so great family are coming to visit you for an entire week. They’re the family no one actually cares for, but are nonetheless still invited to all family gatherings. Now, the day before her intended arrival, she sends you a message saying that unfortunately her family would be unable to visit. WHAM!  Your screaming in joy and elation! Well, if it were possible to funnel emotions into others, this would be the one that us Americans felt waiting for the Israelis. Our months of doing Diller were finally to reach consummation. 


As each person from Greater MetroWest Diller arrived our excitement grew because each time someone walked through the door we thought it might be the Israeli group. It must have saddening to have been the person arriving late: everyone is excited for a moment, just until they realize its simply another American. I’m just teasing. To try and calm our nerves, we attempted to play a game of Ninja. Without going into details, the game got slightly out of hand and we were forced to end it before Seth and Corey had a chance to face off in what most likely would have been a pretty great fight to watch. We also tried to play a game of Waa (yes, Waa) which went better. We were all laughing and getting very excited and decided we should try to calm ourselves down for the big arrival.
When Rachel and Meital, our junior counselors, said they were going to get Leah and the Israeli Dillers, we could not contain ourselves. Each time we heard footsteps near the door our stomachs turned more and more until the moment finally came when they walked in. We all were holding our signs and had our confetti “explosions” and the accompanying adrenalin rush of meeting our new friends. It was pure happiness in the room. Everyone was hugging each other and introducing themselves. It was very chaotic but in the good sense. Once the initial meeting was over we sat down, introduced ourself again, and our Israeli counterparts presented us with small gifts: a journal and a small book, which I am unsure of the contents of sine I haven’t had a chance to open it yet. We then went around the circle said our names and played some ice breakers. The time went by very quickly.
Everyone was very exhausted afterwards. When we arrived home, we had an opportunity to bound with our new Israeli. We were bewildered how instantaneous our friendships were. It was as if we had known each other for years. We can't wait for the next 11 days!
Sincerely,
Rebecca and Eric


Tuesday, March 12, 2013

Just a Few Days Away...Workshop 7!


This past workshop was focused on preparing for the North American Seminar. We began with Avodat Ha-Lev and then broke off into the committees: Welcome, Chupar, Shabbaton, and Farewell. 
When a group of Jewish teenagers sit and work intently for an hour, you know things are serious. The fervor in which we worked was really rewarding, because what is better than doing things for people you care about? 

Then, we received a visit from some Diller alumni, and a super special Israeli guest. Actually he was an American Diller with a fake Israeli accent, but close enough. They answered questions, mostly ones concerning school and work. The main point they emphasized was that the stress and desperation of work become minimal when the Israelis are here with you, and that all it will come down to is spending time with them. The excitement in this tall beige room was almost tangible at this point. 

We then discussed the camps we would be running this summer with the Israelis. This reminded us that this is just the very beginning of our journey with our Israeli counterparts, and to relish every moment of it. After another work session, our meeting came to a close. It was the last time we would be just Americans, but I think we all felt that Metro-LeZion was one group all along.

Happy Birthday, Corey!

Wednesday, February 27, 2013

Workshop 6: The Journey of Bread & Water


As always, we opened our meeting with Avodaat HaLev, or Prayer of the Heart, where we have the opportunity to learn something unseen about a person in our group. Afterwards, we pieced together a gigantic puzzle from our Israelis, one that would end up forming letters and notes from them to us, in anticipation for the quickly approaching North American Seminar.


As we began the first workshop to our meeting, we were all given pictures, and under them were a set of instructions. We really had no idea what we were doing as we bumped into one another, just trying to match ourselves to the picture. As we continued to arrange ourselves in the formation of the pictures, we realized we spelled out "DILLER!" Through this, we were able to understand the idea that our missions aren't always obvious from the ground, but when we see it from above, everything becomes clear. 

Our second activity pertained to the concept of seeing life through "rose-colored glasses”.  This means that whenever you're faced with a problem or something bad happens to you, you, as a leader, look for the best way to resolve the conflict. For example, if you’re in the middle of getting thirty dollars’ worth of food from Dunkin Donuts for your friends, and you drop it all, what will you do? When you put on your “rose-colored glasses,” what will the resolved solution look like? What is the vision?

These two activities were part of something Diller called “The Journey of Bread and Water”. This means that you look at a problem, whether it is something like $30 of dropped food on a sidewalk or a lack in volunteers at a nursing home, you identify the steps that are necessary to take for problem to be resolved. You begin with a mission, a why, a reason for the problem to be solved, a reason you're set out to fix. Next, you see a vision, going back to the “rose-colored glasses,” you try to see what the conflict will look like in the end. Then, you have goals, what needs to be accomplished in order to get to that vision, and lastly there are objectives, kind of like a check in to see how we’re doing on reaching that vision. 

This led us into our next activity: Committees to prepare us for the North American Seminar. We split into 4 committees: the Welcome Committee, who will prepare a welcome for our Israelis, the Chupar Committee, (chupar, meaning treat,) who will prepare gifts each day for the Israelis while we are apart from them, the Shabbaton/Rituals committee who will prepare the Friday night service and Havdallah for us during our Shabbaton, and the Farewell Committee who will organize a goodbye - for now - to our Israelis. We created our mission, vision and goals for each committee and we all are going to take a big part in planning for the NAS.

With the North American Seminar quickly approaching, it was clear that Diller 6 needed to organize our time wisely, especially with our new committees and tasks. In everyday life, we all struggle to maintain a certain schedule. Whether it be homework, chores, or Diller, we devout certain amounts of time to certain tasks. But sometimes the constant juggle can be hard and leave us in a difficult situation. As exceptional teens, we have a responsibility to juggle all of our commitments without dropping the ball. As a way to show this responsibility in a real life situation, our Junior Counselors set up a game of Twister for us, but with a twist. Instead of plain red, yellow, blue, and green dots, a series of colored tasks such as school, homework, and sports were arranged on the floor like a game of Twister. We were told to place different body parts on different tasks and this proved to be a difficult task. As we tried to keep our right hand on schoolwork and our left elbow on SAT tutoring, we realized that it was very difficult to stay steady. This symbolized how hard it is to juggle the many responsibilities of being a Diller Teen Fellow. We concluded with discussing the differences between “importance” and “urgency”. It is important as busy high school students to be able to know in what order things need to get done. We were given a list of 10 examples of things that a typical person would need to do. These ranged from things like calling the admissions office of a college or calling a friend back because they have something funny to tell you. Individually, we had to rank the ten things in order of which we would do first given that we only have a certain amount of time. Then, we broke into groups of four and had to come up with one common list. This helped us realize that with our busy schedules, it is very important to know how to classify things as important or urgent. This will become especially important as the Israelis are coming soon and we have much to prepare for them, and ourselves!

Afterwards, we met up with our parents to discuss the orientation for the North American Seminar - the rules, the schedule, and the Israelis. We just can’t wait!!!!

Thursday, January 10, 2013

Diller 6 Overnight: From Israel to Identity to Leadership - January 5-6, 2013

On Saturday night, Diller was reunited once again and it took no time to get deep into conversation. However, there was stuff to be done. First, we were introduced to one of the JC’s from last year, named Max, (that is one awesome name!). We then played a hilarious game called “Monologues” where we said we loved things we hated, and hated things we love. It was all pretty funny. After that, our very own fellows, Eden and Julian, led an activity where we got the chance to sit one-on-one with another fellow and get to know them on a more personal level. There were candles to set the mood, and dessert-to-share that filled our tummies. Then, we moved on to introducing the Rishon LeZion Dillers to each other. It was so great to learn about our other half, and we cannot wait to meet them very soon! Afterwards, we had our Ma’agal Lilah where we passed around a box that had something inside. One at a time, we individually looked at what was inside the box and had to say one word that came to our mind when we saw it, all without saying what was inside. It was very interesting to hear the different things that people said about the same object and depending on where you were sitting, knowing or not knowing what was in the box was a different experience. Following that was pajama time and then the Social Committee showed the all-time fabulous “Monsters Inc.” At the end, there were three people watching the movie, others were playing Jungle Speed or just chatting. We went to sleep after that, or at least tried to for the day ahead of us.


After waking up from what was a 5 hour nap at best, Diller 6 awoke and did what Jews do best, eat bagels. Diller 5 JC and current JC mentor, Max, then led us in a thought provoking workshop. He started off with a puzzle. He explained a theory that he was taught in his college philosophy class and it went like this:  through advanced science, Greg’s brain has been placed in a jar. Even though Greg’s brain is nowhere near his body, he is still able to communicate with his body. Considering our tech-savvy generation, we chose to think of it like a Wi-Fi signal. The brain could still easily send messages to the body telling it what to do. Greg is fully functional. Max then posed the question, where is Greg? Is he in the body or the jar with is brain? After discussing in groups, we found that no one totally agreed. The theory was a matter of opinion; there was no right or wrong answer. This was not science test, but a way of asking the question, “Who are we?” Does our mind or our bodies define us? We were then given t-shirts and Leah’s sacred markers and told to write, “I am” and then our names on the front. Every Diller gave their name a little twist, whether it was adding a pocket or a small doodle. We then flipped the shirt over and wrote physical characteristics, and well and internal and morals and values who made us who we are. We wrote what we were scared of and who we thought we were as people. Our existence on a tee-shirt. After we were done, we wore our new shirts with pride and explained to each other why we wrote what we wrote. We share our thoughts and opened our minds to look further into ourselves and discover who we truly are.
Our last activity on Sunday was something called the leadership compass. The leadership compass is an activity in which we had to be introspective and honest with ourselves. We were given a list filled with characteristics under four categories, North (The Warrior), South (The Healer), East (The Visionary), and West (The Teacher). All of these are different types of leaders with different strengths and weaknesses  Once we completed the questions, we put all of answers on a graph. When the graph was done we saw where we fell, whether it be North, South, East, West, or somewhere in between. We then discussed where we placed ourselves and if it was in fact a good fit. We also talked about our reaction to where we were placed, because for some of us, it was a real shock to find ourselves in the West, when we thought we were North. We then stood on a big compass Leah taped on the floor in the center of the room. Standing on the compass was very interesting because it allowed us all to see where we fell as leaders, our strengths and weaknesses as a group, and how we really formed a circle, showing that we had every type of leader in our group. The Leadership Compass was a very good activity to end our meeting with, because Diller is all about becoming a good leader, and learning about one’s self is the first step to becoming one. Once the activity was finished we hugged and said our last goodbyes. Then, we all left, waiting for our next meeting.